Doesn't Have A Clue

I was told by someone very close to me something that just makes my head spin. A member of my ward and someone who has never lost a child made a statement about me. I guess I came up in a conversation and a few people asked how I was doing. The person close to me answered well she has her good days and her bad. She still is very torn up by the death of her daughter. This member of my congregation made the statement that he sure wished that I could be happy with the blessings and the children I had and not concentrate so much on what I have lost. I have thought about this for the last couple of days. I can assure anyone that might think otherwise that every breath that I take is because of my children. Those living and those that aren't. I am marriage that is trying at times and that is in a rough patch. I continue to get up everyday and work on that relationship because of my children. I don't have a social life of any sort and spend all of my free time with my kids. It is some times hard to hear comments like that....... and they always come from people that have no idea. I will continue this later.